Handling Sorrow.The 'do' and the 'don't'

I notice that when people feel that they are in their worst situation, they do things their own way for different purposes.

A friend of mine writes in his journal. I don't know what's happened to him but I know that he had that 'hit' around the end of last year. I thought writing is a good way to let the brain work instead of the heart. I learn that he hasnt been himself since that moment when he felt that he's useless and worthless. I hate to think that inside of that laughter and jokes lies a little heart filled with deep sorrow and hopelessness.

Then,there is me. During my difficult time last January, I told everybody around me that they had to allow some 'crazy time' so that I could focus on my 'self-preparation' and I could get over the effect soon. I wrote and wrote several postings, even commenting status in FB (an activity that lead me to finding my friends from schools :)) Blaming someone and telling everyone who's to blame seemed to be an easy way out. Thankfully,I didn't come to that step.

In contrast, someone in the office is doing that right now. What he doesn't know is that people seem to listen to him whenever he's around.The real reaction? Well, let's just say that they feel sorry for him at first, but they end up feeling sorry for themselves for feeling sorry for him. :P The listening time, the games, the text messages and the calls. They could happen at any time any where. Midnight time. For two or three or four hours! Who can stand those for long? *sigh*

Get a grip,man! Life is too short to waste by whinning,complaining and blaming at people. Growing up is what you should do. It's true that sad people can not make others happy. Those nice people are becoming the victims of your selfishness. Poor them.... :(

In the last posting, I said I'd consider not listening. This time I've decided.